When You're in a Funk

cardi // stripe top c/o // jeans // espadrilles // purse // sunglasses

It's was one of those weeks, guys. You know the kind where it's one hiccup after the other. The kind that well, you know your are fine in this moment (when you step back from it all), but things are not happening like you imagined or planned. It's hard to catch your breath because you just caught it two seconds ago. I know, it's not really peppy Friday talk. But I couldn't sit here and chat about my outfit. That didn't seem real. Plus that brings up a discussion I had earlier in the Instagram pod (yes, I do that) I'm in about sharing more than just surface stuff. So how much does one share of their life on the internet? Life is more than shopping, cute outfits, and all the rosy things. While I can't get into the nitty gritty of this week, I can tell you the things that have helped me when I'm in a funk:

1. Talk it out with you're biggest cheerleader in your life. Seriously, you'll feel tons better. 

2. Grab a book! For me, it's a self-help book. It's always the best way to realize how amazing you are. My current read is the Judgement Detox, which I'm close to finishing and savoring. Another one, I love is this for an honest kick in the pants.

3. Treat yo self girl! Depending on your situation, that could be getting a massage or grabbing a fancy latte. For me, it's reaching for a glass of wine and putting on that special occasion face product.

4. Journal it out! Whenever it seems things are not headed the right way, writing down what I actually want flips a switch and puts all your focus on what you want.

5. Get up (or out) and move! It seems to be the perfect time to want to do nothing, but going on a walk or your favorite workout class will get you out of your head.

6. Do something nice for someone else. While you might not be in control of what's going on, but you can deliberately put some good energy out with a good deed. Speaking of good deeds, make sure to check my Instagram later for a giveaway!

What's the one thing you do when things get you down?

Anyway, it's still our weekly linkup! Thank you for linking up with last week! Our pics are Lee from Legallee Blonde  and Cheryl from Cheryl Shops!

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My Go-To Weekend Outfit

Jacket // Top (size xs) // Jeans // Mules // Sunglasses // Purse (similar under $30)

Okay, that title is a lie. There's a good chance this basic look or outfit formula--moto jacket, cute tee, ripped jeans and flats-- is happening close to everyday of the week. That's basically what LA will do to your style. Although I was born here, so is it just in my DNA? Regardless of where you live, I do think every woman needs a good moto jacket. It's like a super hero cape that's acceptable to wear as a grown up. While we were snapping these pictures, my boyfriend (happened to talk him into being my photographer for 5 minutes) noticed how much sass I had with this jacket. If you know me, I'm definitely the easy going gal. But with this jacket I stood a little taller and had that boost of confidence. Do you have a jacket or piece of clothing that just makes you feel extra? 

Now, let's flashback to last year's look here. And what do you know, it's a very similar outfit formula. That moto jacket still is one of my most worn pieces to date! I think that proves my point about having moto jackets in your wardrobe.

Thanks so much for linking up with us! We love looking at everyone's posts, so keep sharing ladies!

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Casual Stripe Sweater

stripe sweater (25% off) // jeans // mules // hat // purse // sunglasses

What a difference a week can make! Last week's fire situation in Southern California, not only created an actual haze, but moral just wasn't there. Directly or indirectly, there were so many effected by the fires. Everyone was on edge. And I know how insanely lucky I am when both my sister and nieces (they're from different sides of the family) have homes to come back to. While the fire is still not in the clear for Santa Barbara County, the blue skies have returned and what LA finds suitable air to breath (hello grimy polluted smog) feels so refreshing. Being out and about just feels so good. There's so much more you can appreciate after an unimaginable week. 

Let's flashback to last year here! It's a good one! While reds are not a color a wear often, this deep shade is one I still can come around to during the holidays. 

Thank you for coming each week to linkup with Jessica and I! Our picks are Christine from Bon Chic Style and Katie from Hello Katie Girl!

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Casual Weekend Stripes

top c/o tobi // jeans (my favorite high waisted pair!) // espadrilles (go half size up) // purse // hat // rings

The thing about my style over the years has become rather casual. Maybe it's my go with the flow attitude. Maybe it's just the LA vibes. But it comes down to knowing what I feel best in and repeating that formula over and over. So you can say I've grown my collection of stripe tops and jeans this summer. While it might seem redundant to keep buying stripes, I know that those are the pieces that will get worn. It's about finding different variations that keep it interesting, even if you're actually just wearing a stripe top+jeans+espadrilles practically everyday. Needless to say, the second I saw this stripe cold-shoulder number from Tobi, it was a must! It made for the perfect top to throw on right because of course my other half gave me a time limit to get ready this weekend. So maybe that's really why I have an outfit formula...jk!

Do you have an outfit formula that you constantly go back to?

Denim Tuxedo

top // jeans // sandals (similar) // purse // hat (similar - i got the black) // aviators // bracelets c/o pura vida

Denim is one of those essentials that you can never have enough. Finding more and more unique denim pieces is definitely my jam right now. When I spotted these cropped ripped jeans, it gave me the feels. But told myself to wait till they went on sale. You bet the sale gods were listening and made it happen! Not going to lie, they are much higher waisted than I normally wear. I'm thinking I would have picked up these one's instead which are an inch lower (short torso problems). But the higher the waist the better, right?! And these are not the pants to wear when you want to eat a lot-lol!

Is anyone already shopping for the holidays? Crazy how we are technically in the holiday season. I' mean 'hello Starbucks red cups' are here. Well, except at my Starbucks for some reason. This year I've been looking for brands that give back for gifts. These friendship bracelets (wearing this and this) are so cute and come in tons of colors and Pura Vida gives back to local Costa Rican artisans with every purchase. Wouldn't they be a nice stocking stuffers? Hopefully, my girlfriends aren't reading this;)

Thank you for linking up! This week our picks are Yana from A Handful of Stories and from Konstantina from K Meets Style!

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Cold Shoulder

cold shoulder top // skinny jeans // gladiator sandals (size half size down) // reversible tote

Clearly, this summer is all about my shoulders (see here and here). While I just can stop with off the shoulder, the next thing to try was the cold shoulder. To be honest, I just knew I needed to try it when I saw this embroidered top. Hello pretty embroidery! Sadly, it's sold out now, but this version is really cute. Anyway, I'm pretty sure this top was fate. The boyfriend took me out on a little date yesterday and I just knew we we're getting bite somewhere new. Turned out to be Mexican. Now, really this top couldn't have matched that restaurant more perfectly. Bonus that its nice and flowy, which gives you the green light to eat as much chips and guacamole you want!

Hope you had a nice looong weekend!

 

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Boho In The City

off the shoulder top // distressed jeans // cognac espadrilles // ray-ban aviators // rockbox rings (get a month free with code adrilatelyxoxo)

Let's be real, it's basically Summer and my full on boho is in high gear. But factor in this whole off the shoulder top and oooh-m-gee I'm o b s e s s e d. When I saw this floral top back in stock, I scooped it up before it sold out again. I had been trying so hard to get it out of my head and I'm glad I was able to get my hands on it! It was the perfect top for a leisurely long weekend and dinner downtown with friends at Cerveteca (get the fish tacos!) But I know I'll be having it on repeat!

How have you been feeling about silver jewelry these days? I know if you would have asked me that question a few months ago, I would have cringed. My Rocksbox this month included all silver jewelry and at first was didn't know what to do with them. But I love a good fashion challenge. These silver rings ended up being my favorite and a great way to tip toe into silver.

Hope you had a nice weekend!

xo Adri

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